The pattern interrupt
A high-touch, 1-month 1:1 experience to get you out of the 'How do you know if it's right?' loop
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For the woman who’s done the work… but still ends up alone.
A 3-Part Audio Series for the One Who Wants the Real Thing
It's 11pm, and you're googling "is the ick a sign" again.
You've had the "should I leave" conversation with Claude more times than you'd like to admit out loud.
He did something mildly annoying on Wednesday, and by Friday you're wondering if you're fundamentally incompatible.
You had the best weekend together, properly close, properly good, and on the way home something in you started picking flaws in him, and the question returned... 'is this right?' 'shouldn't I be more sure?'
You've asked friends what they think, your Claude chat history is semi-embarrassingly focused on how to know if it's 'right' or not, and every time you have one of those conversations, you feel momentarily better...
Only to find yourself in the same pattern 12 hours later
You're not unhappy exactly, you just never feel fully in...and you want to feel fully in, or if it's not right, you want to be fully out.
But then the idea of being fully out also terrifies you..
Either way, the limbo land is not fun
Here is what we often miss
Anxiety and doubt in an otherwise healthy relationship are not always a signal that there is something wrong with the relationship.
They are also not always a sign that your intuition knows something that your mind has yet to catch up with.
And this one is the kicker....
More often than not, they also often have very little to do with the person you are with and a lot more to do with your relationship to commitment, control, closeness, ambiguity and the possibility of loss
I know, right... it's way easier to think it's all about them
But how do you know that that's the case for me?
I don't.
And guess what, Claude, your friends and all those Instagram carousels you read don't know either
Because the truth is, the only way to truly know...
...is to do the exact work that we do in The Pattern Interrupt, where we go beneath the narratives of your mind straight to the source... your body.
And when we start to work directly with the signals of the body, the tight chest, the pit in your stomach, the impulse to run or cling, the numbness, the 'ick'....
We finally get the clarity we've been searching for
Because the truth is, and I know you won't want to hear this, the only person who can truly figure out the right path forward is you, and it's my absolute honour to be the person to support you in learning to listen and decipher the difference between true intuition... and other sh**
WHAT'S INCLUDED
A one-month, two-call intensive designed to get you out of the doubt loop and the push-pull dynamic, and into clarity.
What's included:
📌 Three 75-minute 1:1 coaching calls, spaced across the month, where we go straight into what's happening in your body, in the relationship, and underneath both.
📌 A personal EFT recording, built from what comes up in both of our calls, so you have somewhere to go the moment the spiral starts. This isn't a generic tapping track. It's built for your specific pattern.
📌 WhatsApp access between calls, so when the 11 pm googling urge hits, you've got somewhere else to put it that won't allow you to continue the loop
The Pattern Interrupt Investment: £666 (payable in full or in a 2-month payment plan)
My usual 1:1 rate is £1,000+ a month, so this is the most accessible way to work with me 1:1
This package is only available to new clients of my work
The pattern interupt IS FOR NEW CLIENTS ONLY and is right for you if:
✔️ You know, somewhere, this isn't really about him, but you don't know how to get out of your head and into your body long enough to find out what it is about
✔️ You've tried reassurance (from him, from friends, from the internet) and it works for about twenty minutes before the doubt resets
✔️ You want this fixed now, inside the relationship you're in, not in two years after another 17 millions rounds of "should I stay"
This is NOT suitable for anyone who has been clinically diagnosed with ROCD or OCD in other areas of their life
WhaT my clients have to say...
ABOUT LUCY
Lucy Maeve is a therapeutic coach and mentor who works with high-achieving women who are brilliant at their careers and stuck in the same patterns in love.
Lucy has become known for going where therapy doesn't: into the body, where the pattern actually lives. She works at the intersection of nervous system regulation, parts work, and relational practice to help women stop performing their lives and start actually feeling them.
Before building her coaching practice, Lucy spent a decade selling equity derivatives on a London trading floor. She left in 2020 to train with Dr Gabor Maté and Layla Martin, complete a 400-hour breathwork facilitator training, and build a practice from scratch, informed by everything she'd had to unlearn about achievement, armour, and what it actually means to let someone in.
She has been featured in the BBC and The Telegraph
FAQs
This is the cheapest way to work with you 1:1. Is it actually as good as the longer container?
This is built to interrupt one specific pattern fast, not to rebuild your whole relationship to yourself from the ground up. My vision with this is that The Pattern Interrupt will give you clarity fast because we go straight to the root, so you can stop the spiral. When I was in my own version of this, what I needed more than anything was someone to hold me through the initial phases of healing, and I needed it to be 1-1. At that point, I wasn't sure if I needed long-term work, so this offer is for anyone who feels that way. What comes after that is up to you.
I'm currently single but have experienced this in the past. Is this still for me?
Yes, although it is often easier to work with relational doubt when it is present in a relationship that is 'live', we can also work to understand and heal the pattern whilst we are still single and in preparation for our next relationship
I'm a man, I know a lot of your writing is for women but can you help me with this too?
Hello! Lovely to have you here. Although most of my group containers are solely for women, my 1-1 work is open to all genders
WHEN DOES THE ONE MONTH OF SUPPORT START?
At the point of purchase, once you've paid, you will receive an email from me (check your spam!) explaining the next steps and how to book your your calls